We have often spoken of your life as a learning experience, a place of discovery of what truly has significance and meaning for you. Relationships with some dubious others, partaking in some common but questionable behaviors, and doing some things that cause regret are all involved in the decisions you make going forward. Saying “yes” to some behaviors and relationships and activities is as important as saying “ no” to others. Ask yourself, “Does this activity or behavior set right with me? Do I feel upset with what I have done or what I have said or engaged in? Does this person leave me feeling fractured or unsettled, happy or glad? Are others hurt directly or indirectly by what I have done or said?” Your choice to turn within to Me is the wisest choice as you dwell on these questions, and decide pro or con.  

In your culture and in your media, it is easy to get swept along by what is perceived to be acceptable behavior. The use of substances including excessive alcohol and drugs, viewing others as sexually arousing stimuli, as objects there, the derogatory slamming of groups of people, and the emphasis on material wealth as symbols of status and worth, without measuring the character of a person, are all examples of behaviors and mindsets that degrade instead of uplift. Subtly cast as ‘normal,’ they are ‘take aways' from the Spiritual Reality of who you are. They are ego led and ego fed and undermine mightily your valuing of yourself and others as children of your Maker, there. 

Now I have said many times that I am not judging you there, ever, and I am not. I do not hold you at arms length for bad behaviors or poor judgement. These are learning experiences to be taken to Me and to be explained and understood from the Mindset of Wholeness. I am your teacher, your counselor, and your guide there, dear one. Turn to Me for the learning that you will gain as you understand what is at stake here. Living love, God’s meaning for us will lead the way.  Each choice you make for living out from the joined mindset fortifies and enhances that in you, and consequently, in others also.  You lesson the density of the third dimension, the veil of illusion, making it easier for others to find the truth of their being, the Oneness of who they are. Turn to Me always, dear one, and let us uncover and discover your right movement forward together. I love you dearly, and know that you are never alone.