It is often stated that change is hard. Even the most desired goal of behavior change can be met with resistance. People often seem chained to their familiar routines and habits, even if they are deleterious to them. But small steps in the right direction will yield big results.

 A real help in behavior change is partnering with someone who is willing to support you in your efforts—someone who will guide you and lift you up when you slip, fail, or get discouraged. This support person, ideally, will have the characteristics of a teacher, a coach, a counsellor, a family member, and most of all, a friend. Someone who has naught but your best interest at heart. I am that entity for you, dear one, I am that one. Call on Me to help you in your efforts, dear one. I am right there within. 

Something I have told Randi many times, is that what you do now is the leading edge of what happens next. Your forward movement has its ‘seed bed’ in what you are doing now. So the decisions you make now, portend the future. Today’s small step in the direction you want to go, will yield big results for you as you proceed, small step by small step. I will give you the small steps to take, dear one, as you ask Me in, and as we together, move forward with living love leading the way.

 It is not generating a powerhouse of self-will to move you to your desired goals, but it is in yielding to your Maker, and His will for you that His perfect outcomes will unfold for you. It is yielding to the power of living love that lights the way, clears the path, and gives you the innate forward movement that makes all things right for you. This love has renewal, transformation, healing, and redemption as its very funciton, dear one! It is God’s meaning for you. 

Let us find our peace together, and find our greatest joy not necessarily in change, but in the constancy of our love  and companionship.  I understand why you may want change, but you are loved for who you are with no strings attached — unconditionally there, just as you are. Let us find joy in our relationship, dear one, and know that I love you dearly, and that you are never alone.