From A New Beginning, Volume I

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SAME OR OPPOSITE SEX 

We shall now discuss an aspect of your infinitude which is your choice for a partner of the same or of different sex. When you have a desire to have a physical relationship with someone you have the desire based on many things. There is in your experience much that will determine whether you desire the same or the opposite sex. You will find that this may change through your lifetime and is not a fixed orientation. When you desire someone of the opposite sex you usually have within your desire a cultural expectation and a cultural component to what you desire. This means that you desire one based not only on your own attraction to the opposite sex but on your conditioned thinking that this indeed is the most attractive sex to be involved with. 

Now I will tell you that you cannot experience your own true sexuality or your own true desire without letting your conditioned thinking go and truly listening to what your mind and body are telling you as you respond to those you come in contact with. 

When you do this and do not defend against what you are hearing and feeling you will have a true and a more accurate assessment of what your sexual orientation is. You will find that you may respond sexually to the same sex or you may find that you respond to the opposite sex. You may find you respond to those who have the same sexual orientation that you do or who have a different orientation than you do. Usually your choice for a sexual partner is related to a deep-seated and integral hereditary link or genetic encoding that gives to one the undeniable inclination to be attracted to the same or opposite sex. It is in this encoding that the foundation for one’s sexuality is borne. 

Now we shall look at something that many of you may not be aware of. There are those on your planet who are capable of having a sexual relationship with either sex and do not feel in the least bit uncomfortable. Those who relate to others of either sex usually do not have sexuality as a prime motive for relating but have common interests, values, and lifestyles which make the relationship most worth while. There are those who choose to not be engaged in sexual relationships at all and this is an appropriate way for them to live their lives. Those who choose this are not in any way experiencing life less meaningfully and can trust in this as what is appropriate for them. 

Whether you choose the opposite sex or the same sex the most important thing to remember is to let your integrity be trusted into and follow your true desires and your deepest feelings. When you allow your honesty to guide you, you will merge into your partner’s life forming a unit of love in the world. This unit of love will bring to you great satisfaction and great benefits beyond what you would ordinarily think. Therefore the joining in true harmony and honesty is eminently worthwhile. Now we will discuss that aspect of your Infinity which you experience when you follow your own integrity even though your partner whom you love has a different desire for you. 

If Love Were a Color

If love were a color,

It must be blue,

Its depth like the ocean,

Its height is sky’s hue.

But then there’re the warm tones,

Orange, pink, and red fire,

For love’s burning passion,

Is filled with desire.

Love must be yellow,

Like sun’s radiant beam,

Daffodils blooming, 

We feel springtime’s gleam.

What about purple? 

Royalty’s fare,

Love makes us feel noble,

And generous, there. 

A rainbow of colors,

Love doth bestow,

Each color, a feeling, 

Each color, a glow.

Love is God’s meaning,

Fills all that is there,

God’s powerhouse engine, 

There’s none to compare. 

Its function is healing,

Redemption for you,

Transformation unfolding, 

Making all things new. 

Love’s prism of colors,

You hold every hue,  

God’s meaning made manifest, 

Right there as you. 

Beam forth your colors!

Show who you are!

Bless All with your love, dear, 

You’re God’s shining star! 

In closing I tell you,

I’m here, Oh so true, 

Never alone, dear,

My love shines for you!

4/10/22

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